Do You Know Your Naked Self?

Our words are the fingers, hands, and feet, of our soul. They touch, caress, push away, pull towards, take us forward, make us hide, do all the work that we want for ourselves.

Our words therefore reveal our inner intangible, invisible being.

Anyone who has ever wanted to dress up the external body with fancy clothes, stylised haircuts, make up and perfume understands why they desire it. Would they ever simply smear lipstick along their cheeks and say they “did it simply”?

Words express ideas.

Ideas come in various forms including thoughts, concerns, desires, needs, aspirations and knowledge

Too often, we fall into the trap of thinking that certain conversations—those that feel light-hearted, casual, or purposeless—carry no weight. We may say things “just like that” or “simply said,” assuming that meaningless words leave no lasting effect.

However, this is far from the truth. Every conversation, whether deep or trivial, carries significant implications. Words are not neutral; they reflect the character of the speaker and can shape the reality of both the speaker and the listener.

Of course we are allowed, we can be meaningless, purposeless people! The question is are you aware and is that someone you really want to be?

If your answer is yes – maybe you’re reading the wrong blog.

The Myth of Meaningless Words

When we engage in purposeless conversations, assuming that words have no effect, we neglect the deeper reality that speech is a powerful force. Conversations without purpose or depth do not exist in a vacuum. They influence our relationships, our sense of self, and even our spiritual lives.

Even seemingly “small” talk can reflect the state of our hearts and minds. Our words, whether intentionally shallow or not, can either lift others up or contribute to division, miscommunication, or emotional harm.

Doomscrolling: A Modern Source of Empty Conversation

In today’s digital age, the act of doomscrolling—mindlessly scrolling through negative or sensationalized news on social media—has become an all-too-common way to pass the time.

This behaviour is a modern manifestation of empty conversations. Much like small talk that fills space without purpose, doomscrolling feeds the mind with trivial, often distressing, information that ultimately has little positive impact.

People often engage in these endless cycles of information flow without reflection, robbing them of emotional depth and meaningful connections.

Doomscrolling is a prime example of how we can become passive consumers of words and narratives that serve no constructive purpose. Just as shallow conversations avoid depth and connection, doomscrolling breeds a similar detachment. It feeds us with information that does not invite understanding, growth, or genuine dialogue, but rather stirs anxiety and a sense of helplessness, leaving us emotionally numb and/or disconnected.

The Impact of Meaningful Conversations

In contrast, when we speak with purpose and depth, our words can have a transformative impact.

Purposeful speech encourages connection, promotes growth, and creates bonds that go beyond the surface level

Meaningful conversations are rooted in intention. Whether discussing life’s challenges or offering counsel, these dialogues are reflective of our values and beliefs. Purposeful communication, grounded in wisdom, kindness, and truth, uplifts others. It moves beyond mere exchanges of facts and touches the heart.

The Dangers of Shallow Conversations

While small talk and light-hearted chatter without doubt are important and necessary in human interaction, they should not become the default mode of communication.

 Those who habitually engage in shallow conversations, may unintentionally build walls around themselves, preventing meaningful relationships from forming. Their words may reflect emotional avoidance or a lack of willingness to connect with others on a deeper level.

Whether it’s through excessive joking, superficial compliments, idle gossip, or useless information, shallow conversations often obscure the truth and hinder the growth of authentic relationships.

The Balance Between Fun and Purpose

Balance is key when it comes to conversation. Like all aspects of life, conversation thrives when it finds balance. A healthy mix of fun, light-hearted exchanges and meaningful, purposeful conversations creates a well-rounded communication style that allows relationships to flourish in both depth and enjoyment.

It is just that we need remember our words mustn’t be empty or useless.  Light heartedness is also purposeful and filled with meaning. The concept of “I simply said it” cannot exist. We touch for a reason. We can touch accidentally, but never meaninglessly.

Conclusion: Every Word Has Implications

In the end, the idea that words can be meaningless, without the person himself or herself reducing themselves to meaninglessness is a fallacy.

Our words are the expression of WHO we are inside our bodies.

You only recognize your own face because you have a mirror. Without it, it’s a mystery to you, even though others can see it clearly

In the same way your inner person is hidden to you. Everyone else sees who you are on the inside by your words and actions. Their conclusions may be right or wrong, because of the principle of “beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder”

If you love someone – be their mirror.

In the physical self, how ugly one must be to detest looking into a mirror?

It’s the same way – how much one must hate one’s own self to detest seeing oneself through another’s’ understanding.

Those who love themselves look into the mirror, learning and growing with each reflection.

Those who avoid self-awareness may look away or even shatter the mirror.

 What kind of mirrors and relationships are you cultivating? Are they deep, reflective, and meaningful, or are they superficial?

Remember, your words are a reflection of your inner self, and they have the power to shape  both you and the world around you.

What types of mirrors and relationships do you have? Shallow or deep? Are you naked or clothed? Useless or useful?

It’s never “just words”